This was our 2nd year doing Comic Con. We bought tickets knowing I’d be 7 months pregnant when it came around and I will admit I was worried. I’ve never been preggo before. I had no idea what I’d feel like or look like or anything. Would I regret this decision? The answer…hell no. It actually was the best decision ever. Well, not ever, but a pretty great decision. I had been stressed out a ton from work and gotten a UTI which sucked, if you’ve ever had one you know what I’m talking about. Add a baby sitting on your bladder and it makes the whole thing even more confusing (do I need to pee after just having gone pee because of the UTI or the baby! AGGGHHHH!) All of this had included lots of pain, urgent care, antibiotics, keeping cranberry juice the top selling juice, and walking around like I just got off a horse. Needless to say, I was miserable. How could I walk around Comic Con for 3 days and one of those days in costume? The answer is…EASY. Comic Con is the cure for my woes. Literally. Just leaving town, I felt re-energized and less pain in my nethers. I forgot the fact that my bajango felt like it had been punched a bunch and was ready to rock the con!
I kicked it off with an Uber to a friend’s house to carpool together to San Diego. The Uber dude immediately says “Is this an emergency?” referring to my pregnant state. Seriously guy, would I call an Uber if I was in labor? Maybe that does happen. I hope I don’t have to Uber to the hospital when the time comes. Geez! Alas, as most experiences go with a baby belly, people want to tell you all of their opinions on how to give birth, raise your child, and judge any of your own choices. The majority of people that do this are MEN, which I find amusing and annoying all at once. And I’d like to address it with a quick letter to all of these men driving me crazy with their opinions.
Dear kind sir, you have NEVER had a baby, please do not coach me on how I should conduct myself and my birth plan. You have not, will not, can not, ever know what it is like. Plus every woman is completely different. Perhaps you feel that you can pass on some sort of knowledge having witnessed a birth by your wife, but that doesn’t make you an expert. I will continue to find this advice from my doctor who has actually been up in the shit and knows my own personal situation.So while I appreciate your concern and where it comes from, I would like you to mind your own @#$%ing business. Thank you. – On behalf of pregnant women everywhere, Tiffany
I am actually starting to master the whole “ignore everything rude people have to say and just nod and smile” routine. He also told me how my husband isn’t my blood but my baby will be and that will make me love my baby more than I love my husband. Wow guy…uplifting shit you are dishing out at 6am on a Thursday morning. Granted this man is in his 40’s and resorted to driving an Uber for income due to being laid off from a high paying construction job. I felt bad for the guy. Tried to give him some inspiration that he will find something better soon. He would rather tell me how much he spent on his kid’s college tuition and that’s because he loves them so much. I get it…you love your kids. Ok! I’m starting to get the impression that he is worried I won’t love my kid or something. Finally we reach our destination (THANK GOD!) and I’m ready to hit the road to Comic Con.
We make it in about 3 hours with a few pit stops….thankfully everyone else had to pee as well. And it’s glorious. So many things to see. We walk around all day and I’m fine! Yay. Vacation is the pregnant lady’s answer to stress and pain. Also, hearing people say how cute your bump is and how tiny you are for 7 months pregnant helps too. Makes me think of that old saying…”if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” Keep that in mind while talking to a pregnant lady.
You are so tiny! – Good
You are so cute! What a cute belly!- Good
WHOA you must be giving birth soon eh? – BAD
You are carrying wide…must be a girl. – BAD
I didn’t even notice that you were pregnant! – Good
Wow are you having twins? – BAD
You are the cutest pregnant lady I’ve ever seen. – Good
See where I’m going with this?
Also, I don’t get how these comments could have such range from not noticing I’m pregnant to thinking I’m having multiple babies. Bizarre. I really think that people just want to be evil. And I will never understand that.
Onto Saturday!! DAY 3 of the Con. The day I’ve been waiting for…Cosplay Day! I decided to create the Scarlet Witch from the comics when she is pregnant with the twins. I think I did a pretty good job if I do say so myself. Not only was a it super comfortable (thank you sweet baby Jesus for the ultimate Amazon find in flat thigh high boots in the perfect shade of red!) but I felt like I looked good too. I was worried I’d just look like a big ol’ preggers hence a BLOB. Thankfully, it all came together for the greater good. That being my self-esteem. And just like last year, we were bombarded for picture after picture all day long. My favorite part. The highlights of the day included:
– Being asked for our picture over and over again while standing underneath the balcony where Ryan Reynolds was being interviewed.
– Getting to be in the Nerdist music video for Comic Con.
– While waiting for lunch, the host of an NFL show took our picture unbeknownst to us and posted on Instagram “how dare you make us wait!”
– Then running into the cast of Agents of Shield as they left a restaurant which ended up being where we ate lunch.
– The waiter that just served the cast of Agents of Shield being stoked over our table and saying “we made his day!” This I found extremely awesome because HELLO…the Agents of SHIELD had just been here! But WE were the ones he loved.
All in all, it was a very successful cosplay day. Surprisingly, we lasted even longer than last year in our costume getting on the shuttle back to the hotel around 8pm. I couldn’t believe I lasted on my feet in boots pregnant, longer than I did the year before as Black Widow not pregnant. Yay me! I think it’s things like this that make my husband forget that I’m pregnant and possibly think I’m not in any sort of discomfort at all. Granted, dressing in costume and getting lots of attention are my thing. I think I even forgot I was pregnant, which is why I say Comic Con is the cure for pregnancy pain! Why can’t I do this everyday?
Now what you’ve all been waiting for…PICTURES!
Stay tuned for the Baby Shower post!